The Sexual Meme: Connect The Dots

Peep's sexual meme

I have a feeling this week’s meme topic is going to raise a few eyebrows…at the very least 😀 . I can’t decide if there will be an explosion of bloggers taking part or if a lot will choose to skip a week. Time will tell, and I’ll be keeping a close eye on Berry’s blog comments to see.

From the title, you can gather that Miss Berry is curious about our sex lives. Since this marks the one year anniversary of her memes, who am I to say no?

Here are the specifics:

Meme instructions: Answer the following sexual questions because I am a perv and want to know all about your sex lives. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments here so I can perv all over your answers, multiple times.

I think all bloggers should participate, if for no other reason that to facilitate Miss Berry’s multiples 😉

1. What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? – I am completely heterosexual. That may sound strange coming from a woman who has a wifey, but I just love men. All things about them. Some more than others.

2. Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – I’m with Berry on the eyes, but I also have a real thing for forearms and hands. When those little muscles ripple along the forearm and the back of the hand, I just turn to butter. That may explain my attraction to musicians. And mechanics.

3. Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – I’m neither. When I was younger I probably leaned toward promiscuity, but I know how many sexual partners I have had. In SL, other than a period a few years ago when I regretfully had a relationship with two men at the same time, I am a one-man woman. That said, there haven’t been that many of them. I prefer a long-term relationship and if I break up with a guy I don’t feel the need to immediately replace him, just for the sake of being in a relationship.

4. What turns you on? – A smart, funny man. And having my hair brushed. And having my palm gently stroked.

5. Are you dominant or submissive? – I tend to be submissive…until I’m dominant. I like a man to take charge, but I’ve been known to take control in the heat of the moment.

6. Are you into sexual roleplay? – I guess one could argue that any sexual encounter in SL is role play. As for dressing up like a school girl or playing doctor and nurse, nope. However, if acting out a fantasy such as having a twirl with some silk scarves or having sex in a public place (discretely) cropped up, I wouldn’t say no.

7. Which sexual position is your favorite? – I think this is where the submissive part comes in. I like doggy and (yes, I admit it) missionary, particularly if my hands are being held above my head.

8. Do you have any fetishes? – I don’t think so. Gawd, I’m boring! But I have to agree that having my toes sucked is pretty friggin’ mind-blowing and having a bit of ice in the bedroom isn’t a bad thing 😉

9. Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – lol no way! Although in my SL dancing days, some of my emotes might have qualified. If they would let me write the scripts for porn movies they might actually be worth watching 😀

10. Do you consider yourself sexy? – I don’t, although I’ve been told I am. I’ve also been told I am sexy because I don’t think I am.

Speaking of sexy, check out my new skin! This is a preview of the Wrath Skin from 7 Deadly S{k}ins for The Skin Fair. Not only is it sunkissed, but it has full-body freckles. Stay tuned for more on this skin later in the week.

Hmmm…full-body freckles. Hey Grumper, wanna play connect the dots? And make sure you bring the moosteriser 😉

Pretty stuff I’m showing off:

Nightie: GizzA – Morning After [Gold] by Giz Seorn
Hair: *ARGRACE* Mia – True Red by rika Oyen
*Skin: 7 Deadly s{K}ins – WRATH B4d T2 by Izara Zuta (available at The Skin Fair 2014 – I’ll update you with the SLurl later in the week)
*Makeup: 7 Deadly s{K}ins Wrath M3 DEF by Izara Zuta (available at The Skin Fair 2014)
Tattoo: Letis Tattoo :: Pink Rose :: Back :: 50% :: B12019 by Leti Hax
Hands: Slink Mesh Hands (av) Casual by Siddean Munro
Feet: Slink Mesh Feet (Av) Flat by Siddean Munro
Eyes: Amacci Gaze Eyes – Ocean Blue by Carina Larsen
Lashes: Mon Cheri *MC* “Falsies” Eyelash by Freya Oliveri

Bed: Scarlet Creative Nostaglia Bed Wood/Gold by Charlotte Bartlett
Build: Scarlet Creative Work Life Loft by Charlotte Bartlett (available at Collabor88)

Pose: aDORKable Poses: Floored 3 by Adorkable Peapod

New-to-me Meme: Time To Have Fun

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I am going to admit that I am not very imaginative. When Strawberry Singh’s Monday Meme came out this week I had to stop and think a bit. She has asked that we blog something we haven’t blogged before. So I set about to figure out what I could do that I hadn’t already done. I have done fashion posts, home & garden, landscape & location shoots, reviews, tutorials, commentary and even real-life photos. I was kind of stumped for what I could do.

That pretty much left me with a bottle of peroxide.

It is only as I am sitting here, writing the actual post after having shot and processed the photo, that I remembered that I have blogged myself as a blonde – and even for another challenge (insert blushy face here). I went blonde when I created my movie poster meme several months ago – one of my favourite challenges ever. I was also a male in that photo, another thought I had but eliminated since I had already shown my masculine side. I just didn’t recall that I had gone blonde for the other half of that picture. So I’m going to discount it, since I wasn’t really me in that shot – I was Meg Ryan.

I have always said I have a recessive blonde gene, so I am going to use that as a defense and go ahead and post this 😀

In case you want to play along or check out other entries, here are the details:

Blog something you’ve never blogged before and/or something you normally wouldn’t blog. This is more of a photography themed meme, with a focus on visuals of the item(s) you’ve never blogged before, however, if you prefer to make it a written meme and just write about something you normally wouldn’t write about, that’ll work as well. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments (of this post) and share your images in the blog memes flickr group.

I’m not convinced that blondes have more fun, but it felt perfectly natural when I walked into a wall after donning my platinum wig 😉

Pretty stuff I’m wearing:

Top: GizzA – Spiky Fur [Black] by Giz Seorn
Skirt: Blokc Asym Skirt (blk) by Giana Paine
Necklace: =Zenith=Azure Teal Stone Necklace(Golden) by Miffyhoi Rosca (available at FaMESHed)
Hair: Magika [Hair] Awake by Sabina Gully
Skin: [PXL] Creations – [PXL] JADE SK Cherry Lips MEB C2 by Hart Larsson
Eye Makeup: [PXL] Creations – [PXL] JADE SK Smokey Eyes by Hart Larsson
Brows: [PXL] Creations – [PXL] JADE SK Eyebrows: Blonde by Hart Larsson
Hands: Slink Mesh Hands (av) Casual by Siddean Munro
Hand applier:[PXL] Creations – [ PXL ] Slink HandApplier SK by Hart Larsson
Nails: Izzie’s – Slink Avatar Enhancement – FINGERNAILS (metallic)

Pose: Eternal Dream Poses – *ED* Generation Girl 08 by Fata Boa